If you've had a break-up, you're probably either trying to either trying to work out how to get over the person, or how to win back lost love. Neither is simple, but most of the fall to one or the other, with only only a few able to move on quickly without pining or wishing things might be different. You should actually think hard about the relationship and your ex before you do anything. Think about how things were and how they are going to be now. Try and be as unprejudiced as you can. You may decide that the break-up really isn't a bad idea.
If you decide to try to win back lost love, the 1st is to apologize. You could think you've done this. You might have asserted you were sorry several times. But if your ex thought you were apologizing just to stop a split, she'd not believe the apology was sincere.
If you were the one who did something that you need to say sorry for, say sorry again. Now they would believe the apology is sincere, because nothing hinges on it. If the relationship has finished, you will not be announcing it only to reserve it but they are going to believe that you actually mean it. ( And hopefully, you do. )
When your ex was the person that did something worth apologizing for, then instead of attempt and get a sincere apology from them, pardon them. You can never forget, particularly if your break-up was because of cheating, but you have to learn to forgive. Forgiving is much more hard for some of us than just announcing, "I excuse you," though , so you may want to read a book or two on forgiveness and how to really mean it. If you'd like to win back lost love, this step will help you do it. And it can help prevent problems in the future, too.
If you do succeed and you win back lost love, three or 6 or nine months into the newly patched relationship, old issues might come up. If you haven't forgiven the person for whatever was done to destroy up the relationship, then you could have a tough time getting past everything. Old wounds would be reopened and it's possible that hurtful things would be said.
But if you can actually excuse the person, then there will not be any need to rehash the past. While you're working on forgiving him for for whatever happened to cause the break up, forgive them for the break up itself and you can save yourself plenty of grief down the road.
Also, to win back lost love, show the person the "you" they fell in love with, not the "you" that has been dumped. They were with you because you have certain qualities-kindness, thoughtfulness-not because you are annoyed, jealous or hurt. While you might not be able to hide the hurt, concentrate on being the best "you" you can possibly be and you may win back lost love by reminding them why they loved you in the first place.
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