Getting a girl to like you is actually quite easy. The trick is to be focused on first finding a girl that shows interest. Many guys get caught up on one girl. If the girl doesn't like you, you can't try to fight human nature. First you have to find a girl, be presentable, and be interesting. Once you have sparked the interest, many girls will like you and it will happen automatically. The trick is getting enough girls interested in talking with you.
It's not always as easy as some people think, but it's usually never as hard as people try to make it sound. You just have to repeat a method a few times, and you will probably find success. But don't get ahead of yourself. You can't fight human nature. So you have to find things that work towards your advantage.
So how do you get a girl to like you? You need to be different, unique, and usually fun. Although the ladies will find different things interesting than you will, and even than other ladies will, girls almost always do not like plain and boring. They do like exciting and unique, and adventurous. There are two ways to go about it, either decide what you want, and then figure out what that girl is interested in, or figure out what type of guy you are, and what type of girls are interested in who you are. Being yourself and finding someone who likes who you are is pretty self explanatory, but odds are youre hear because youve tried that, and you cant seem to know what girls are interested in you, or you havent tried it. So we will start with finding a girl you like
First decide what you want. Do you want quiet girl, or outgoing? Would you prefer a smart girl, or is personality more important? Would you like a blond or brunette? Try to get specific as you can about the type of girl you want. Then you need to find out what sort of things that type of girl likes. Sure, youll have to make judgments that arent always true, but the important thing is that theyre true more often than not, in order for you to eventually be more successful than not. If you want an adventurous girl, you have very little chance if you continue to "be yourself if you are someone who is afraid of his own shadow, unless you can somehow showcase the qualities you DO have that she lacks and is looking for, such as teaching her to protect herself, to think things through, and give her a different point of view without preventing her from enjoying herself. You have to become the person that they want to be with. Then spend time doing the things they like to do with them. If climbing rocks gets their adrenaline going, and gets their heart pounding, and you go everyday to climb with them... they're going to associate those good feelings with you, which can only be good for you.
The problem with many guys is they don't have enough girls that they talk to, and they dont get specific on what they want, so while one method might work very well for one set of girls, it might fail completely with another. Without keeping things consistent, it is hard to find any one method of success.
If you can learn how to define specifically what you want, and then be an interesting person to that group of people, all thats left is to experiment over and over and over again. You should eventually be able to figure out what works for a specific set of women, what approach works best, how and where to meet them, and how to spark there interest, and so on. If you can find an exact method on how to deal with women that share similar interests that is successful, you can repeat that method, make adjustments and learn how to be even more successful with that method in getting girls to like you. If you do that, you will never again have to wonder how to get a girl to like you.
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